Tuesday, July 2, 2024

Heera mandi on Netflix, a review by Fariha Munir Shah


Pakistan and India acquired their freedom 77 years ago. Yet, Indians still seem obsessed with the culture and history of the part, which was separated from them in 1947. Their film makers have not set foot in this part of the sub continent. They know nothing of its culture, mannerism, even fashions, but they are fascinated by Pakistani women. They have created an imaginary world about them and make movies, spin stories, fantasize about its women. Dress, undress them like paper dolls, attribute characteristics and personalities as 'they' wish them to be. 

The most annoying part of it all remains, they blatantly steal music and stories from Pakistan and do not give credit, acknowledge or appreciate the original writers or makers. Here, I want to bring your attention to the latest Netflix series, ' heera mandi '. The basic structure of the story, about rivalry of two sisters from professional, 'singing and dancing', families is clearly lifted from 'Hum tv' drama serial, 'deewar e shab'. Once you have seen the drama, it is impossible to unsee the parallels. Sanjay Leela Bhansali just added his regular ingredients, chandeliers, fire, sequins, glitter, dull, dark vibe.

Alam Zeb from Indian serial, belongs to 'tawaif family', but does not want to become one. She likes to read and write poetry. Just like Geti Ara, from 'dewar e shab'. The elopement scene. In Hum tv drama, it was the aunt, who encourages her niece 'Feroza', to flee for love. Whereas, in 'heera mandi' it is aunt's daughter, helping her cousin. When the basic intent behind both, was to remove major 'diamond' from the rival family, to capture the market.

Sanjay Leela Bhansali should have atleast seen movies about tawaifs made by his own country, like Pakeezah or Umrao Jan. The entire script of Heera Mandi is completely misleading. One hilarious flaw in the story is the open discussion carried out in a family gathering by hero's grandma, to send Tajwar Baloch to Heeramandi to LEARN something. When he had already completed his education from UK. Do you believe, those women really excelled in literature, Mathematics or religion, than the scholars whom influential families patronized for educating their boys? No! they were never so well qualified. Mention of a 'tawaif' in a respectable family was considered dishonorable. They were not allowed to mingle or socialize with such families. Nawabs were not gladly allowed by their families to visit that area. It was not something to be proud of. Those who indulged in it, were considered corrupt and immoral. Some were even disowned by their inheritance as disapproval from their families. Although, they did hire the services of tawaifs at home to teach their girls, who were brides to be- to acquaint them of the etiquettes of wedding night. As women of honorable families were not allowed to and were too shy to discuss these matters. That too, was a sign of a liberal family, not the conventional, religious ones, they did not even allow them at weddings. Instead, there were qawalis and milaads at such occasions. Neither music, nor the poetry of heeramandi has substance. The colors are dull and depressive. Sanjay Leela Bhansali should come out of the monotony of his color palette. Even in Nawab Zorawar's wedding scene, color combination of men and women's dressing seem to be part of the walls. Who likes so much of uniformity as in, that particular scene.
I have heard, S L Bhansali is being blamed of nepotism for casting his niece, Sharmin Segal in the leading role. Atleast, he or anyone from the production team should have visited Lahore to witness in person, the kind of beautiful women present there. The entire team of big names he has added, does not qualify for becoming even their hand maidens, let alone the tawaifs of those times, who were brought and settled by British from Russian states and Afghanistan. British shaped this place as what it is known for today.
Also, SLB should have made the heroine learn proper pronunciations of major Urdu words like 'خدا' with 'خ' instead of 'khay' English/Hindi style. Imagine,' کھ' in place of 'خ'. In Urdu 'خدا' means God. Whereas, ‘کھدا' means 'digging'. We know, it is a lingual disability for Indians to be unable to utter many of Urdu words, but over such things and proper pronunciations, selections are made in auditions and performers are rejected. Indeed, nepotism of the worst kind is seen here.
If we talk about the history of 'heeramandi', it was not these women who were regarded as 'diamonds'. It was founded as a grain market in the name of  'Heera Singh Dogra', a prime minister of Punjab, during the reign of  Maharaja Ranjeet Singh. It was later shaped by British for their own merry making to what earned this place this reputation. As a total disrespect for its surroundings.

First time ever, we came across a realization that these women contributed in the freedom of sub
continent. Surely was the best part and thank God, Indian creators extended a little respect by acknowledging it about women they brought to the world as sex workers, not as artists.

In the end, I want you all, capable of reading Urdu, to look at the title of the newspaper, this actress is reading.
I fail to understand this word, 'Oh zee tay'? Is it an Urdu word? If not, then my dear friends, this is exactly, what Sanjay Leela Bhansali has done to this show. It makes no sense, is far from reality, everything is beautiful about it except the heroine, music and poetry.

Thursday, September 10, 2020

Motorway rape victim & CCPO Lahore


First, this unfortunate incident, which should not have taken place, happened on motorway and through CCPO Lahore Aamer Sheikh's comments, it dawned upon us that Motorway is not as safe and well guarded as we believed it to be (but surprisingly, GT road is).

Then why do we waste so much money and fuel to go for longer routes on motorway? Till today, we thought motorway was safer and better. Without fear we traveled on it, any hour of the day or night. Only because we thought, we were protected. I am sure, the unfortunate victim had the same in mind. I wonder if women in Pakistan cannot travel on motorway alone, where else they can do?

It also makes us wonder, what if this accident had occurred on GT road instead? Then the same people would have pointed out, why the unfortunate lady did not take motorway route, as it was safer.

When doctor sees patients in pain, he gives them treatment without asking, why they invited it upon themselves. Whereas police men like Aamir Sheikh shame the victims. They are the ones who suggest parents of kidnapped girls that their daughters must have eloped with someone. They are the kind, who lock the victims behind bars when they visit police station to register their complaints against powerful rapists and influential oppressors, inform their opponents against them.

Aamir Sheikh represents the mindset which protects the criminals. Which take sides of men, because they are men and believe, women are weaker and dim witted. They would suggest others to protect their sisters and daughters, but would not perform their duty of protecting people of their country, which actually is the job of police.

We strongly condemn, Aamer Sheikh's derogatory, demeaning remarks about motorway rape victim. Our women can never be safe till we have such patriarchs in the guise of our protectors, who blame the victims.

Furthermore, he goes on to defend his words by revealing secret information about the victim on national TV that she was from Paris, therefore did not understand the odds of driving alone.

It is an insult for all female drivers. Does he even know, how many of them are on roads now? Is he portraying Pakistani women so vulnerable and men as beasts?

We want a society, where our daughters can travel like in the times of Hazrat Omer, when women could travel alone, city to city, loaded with jewelry, without eyes being raised on them. Those who quote riyasat-e-Madinah in everything, need to be reminded. Such were the examples of those civilized societies, ours is turning into a jungle full of predators.

Security of an individual, be it a woman or man, is the responsibility of the state and its police. Shaming and blaming the victims is intolerable. Today, it was her, tomorrow, it can be any of us. We demand immediate dismissal of this ruthless, selfish, police officer from the force. Nothing less.

Where rapists and killers need to be punished and executed publicly, people who like him, who sponsor them need to be rooted out too . Begin with throwing him out and show, people like him are actually the shame.

Sunday, May 10, 2020

Corona virus and my conspiracy theory about the situation



There are many stories/conspiracy theories going around in the world about Corono virus. I do not deny existence of this virus. Rather, am afraid, it maybe, even more deadly than what, it is actually being projected as. So far, it seems, it has brought the world down to its knees.


Looking at the lockdown, arrival of 5G, Bill Gates sponsoring WHO on Pandemics. My intellect refuses to accept there is no game in it. These are the modern times, medical and scientific advancement at its highest. How can we be so afra
id and so helpless, infront of a virus??
It makes me think, someone, somewhere is cashing the situation...


Surprisingly, results of the lockdown turned out to be beyond our imagination. It is proving good for environment that humans are staying at home.

Ozone layer is repaired within few months. Environment seems fresh, like it was never polluted. Wildlife is gaining its freedom to roam around freely.

It is good for humans to have time to spend with family, to enjoy the comforts and luxuries of their house, to get to know their children or their parents closely.

Everyone is trying to reach out to the poor or needy and trying to help them.

People like myself are trying to reconnect with religion and God.

Expenses like massive weddings and parties are being cut. Simpler ways of life are being encouraged.

Although, it is unfortunate that people are getting sick and losing their lives. Otherwise, this lockdown strategy seems to be a blessing in disguise.

Yet, there are some major shifts.....Online school, college, university classes. More dependence on internet!

People watching entertainment shows, more dependence on internet.


Families like ourselves, who loved eating out, are exploring cooking videos, learning our favorite things to make at home. More dependence on internet.


People are studying Quran through YouTube. Internet again......


Few days ago, I watched a travel show by a Facebook star, who was promoting hiring people who are experts of internet use.


People are being encouraged to buy & sell online. Work online. Meetings being arranged virtually. Well, what a massive success internet is becoming.


Nothing is working more than internet, FB, whatsapp, Skype, Zoom, Netflix, YouTube, all the other commercial selling sites, etc.


To me it seems an awareness session by Bill and Melinda Gates, about the usefulness and advantages of internet. We have been forced to stay at home with internet in our hands to handle our life We are learning to use internet in so many ways. It is basically a crash course of training to learn, how to do things, work, earn, shop, meet, have fun, without leaving our house, through internet.


Internet is out there in the world for almost 40 years, but today, we have learned, what a blessing it is. So, to me, it is all, about the significance of internet! Isn't it??? Bill Gates wants the world to depend maximum on internet, because it can be done. Internet is holding us a hostage.


Honestly, I do not look at this negatively. This is actually of great advantage to the world, for the good of every kind of life, which exists on Earth. Only if there was no fear of the virus, of ailment or death in sight.


This lockdown situation can be a good future strategy. To help handle the pollution. People can have the choice to work/earn from home. Students and children, do not have to be part of the terrible traffic on the roads.

This world can be, far busier a place, without so much mess out there. Although, not a complete shutdown, the kind which is now getting on our nerves, with an additional fear of Corona virus.

Something, more sophisticated and smartly designed than the lockdown. Govts can tell people to stay at home and do not come out unnecessarily and this becomes a norm then. A new lifestyle, a new system for a safer, cleaner world.

Just that! Think of it now.